Respect all men

Everything mentioned in this verse does not come to us naturally but can only be cultivated in our lives after we have accepted Jesus as our Lord and Saviour. And even then, it is no easy task to apply these godly principles without the supernatural help of Holy Spirit.

We are called to respect everyone, without exception. What about that boss that makes our lives miserable at work? Even that one, says Peter in verse 18 when he addresses household servants: Slaves, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. He was speaking to the fact that slaves who converted to Christianity were targeted by their masters because they did not participate in worshiping their idols anymore.

In verse 13 he exhorts us to Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, and this corresponds with his instruction to honour the emperor in our quoted verse. Did you know that the emperor he is referring to was Nero? The one who impaled Christians and set them alight to be human torches used as lamps in the streets; the one who let others be torn apart by dogs? Peter called on his readers to honour even this emperor. He pleads with us not to fall into lawless rebellion in verse 16 Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s slaves.

Why?

We find the answer in two verses. Verse 15 For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people. It is God’s will that you should live in such a way that everybody who wants to slander and accuse you can find nothing in your conduct to use against you. And also verse 21 For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps. Jesus was reviled; insulted; abused; and He suffered greatly, even though He was innocent of all charges. Yet He did not retaliate but left everything to God, Who will one day judge fairly.

To bear patiently with suffering that comes when you do right and which is undeserved, is behaviour acceptable and pleasing to God (verse 20).

Pearls to ponder:

We are confronted with dishonest and corrupt leaders all around us. How do we honour them? I think the answer lies in honouring the office of authority (president, magistrate, etc) and never letting our hearts develop a hatred towards the person occupying that office – we should instead stand in the gap for them and cry out for their salvation. We can identify wrongdoing and take steps to counteract these while still obeying the laws of the land, as long as these laws do not expect us to do something against God’s laws. Then civil disobedience (the nonviolent refusal to obey certain laws) is called for.